My first meeting with my partner self and comuunity project partner was in many ways successful. As I walked towards our agreed meeting point, I braced myself for all possibilities. I wasn't sure whether he would be snobbish or jovial, willing to admit his specific difficulties or defensive in this regard, etc. However, when I met Mr. Ramirez half of my worries immediately dissipated because by from one look at him I could tell it would be easy to work with him.
After brief introductions, we sat at a table to converse further. I really appreciated the fact that Mr. Ramirez was quick to tell me what he wanted help with. This helped eliminate the need for me to dig in and identify his problems. He first asked for help with English verbs. He said he knew a good number of verbs, but had difficulty applying them in sentences. I promised to return next week with a comprehensive list of verbs and to compile a set of general rules that would assist him in buiilding sentences.
For the next twenty minutes or so, we went through the papers and he pointed out words that he had difficulty with. To my relief (and astonishment) I was able to provide a simple synonym or phrase to descibe all the words he asked about. I found additional satisfaction in how much he appreciated my assistance.
For the last part of our meeting we discussed many different topics. I found out a number of things about him, his family and his aspirations in this period. I was also particularly pleased that he shares some of my passion for soccer. At the end of the meeting, we agreed on our next meeting point and bade farewell.
My first meeting presented me with the opportunity to pursue conversation with a new kind of person. I felt a strong sense of inner satisfaction and fulfilment as I walked to my apartment after the meeting. In such a short period, I was able to reach into the mind of my partner, at least to a certain depth, and learn a few things about him. I was also lucky enough to learn a few things about myself along the way, like how many words I actually do know. I see great outcomes from this project.